50 Thoughts on Being a Mom.5/9/2021 The other night, as my kids gradually made their way home, I pondered how quickly my life is changing. As a mom of three kids ages 20, 19, and 17, this past year has made me cherish my fleeting time with them. They’re becoming independent young adults, with social lives, school, and jobs. They don’t need me so much anymore, and soon they’ll be moving out and living their own dreams and adventures. It’s funny how the small (seemingly boring) moments are what I hold on to and cherish so much.
Grace was lounging on the couch with me, watching anime (I was scrolling facebook because she was watching it IN Japanese with English subtitles. Ew.) Then, Jane arrived home from work at 7:30, warmed up leftovers, and chatted with us while eating at the table. Tired, she said goodnight at 8, hugged me, and went down to her room to relax and read before bed. Around 8:30, Adrian strolled in the front door after his shift at the hardware store and was followed by Grace’s boyfriend, who joined us on the couch, while Ade reheated dinner and took the seat where Jane was minutes before. We all casually chatted for a while before they went their own ways for the evening. It’s amazing to me that after being a mom for 20 years, my heart somehow still grows with love for these nuggets with each passing week. How is that even possible? I remember when Jane, my oldest, was born. I was just instantly over the moon in love. When Grace came along 18 months later, I wondered how I could love them both sooo much. I couldn’t possibly have room for more. But it was there. When Adrian came two years after, I knew without a doubt that this little boy would capture my heart and be destined for great things. He was meant to come into the world at that exact time. As Mother’s Day approaches, I decided to reflect on thoughts I’ve had and what being a mom has taught me over the years.
Your kids will sometimes think you’re the biggest jerk. They will hate you some days and will say it to your face. It stings. There will be teary moments and screaming matches. Your kid will think that you’re old and embarrassing. But it won’t last. It won’t always be that way. Some things just take time. So give time, some time. In my experience, the good, great, and fantastic moments far outnumber the others. Infants and toddlers grow quickly and learn fast. The surly, sulky, hide-in-their-room years will pass. Make the best of your moments with them, because the moments will become far and few between in a blink of an eye. Happy Mother’s Day to all of the Moms, Aunts, Grandmas, sisters, and even the Dads who are the “mom,” too! Enjoy your day and your loved ones! *Please click the FB like if you enjoyed this post and share it!
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Rose Kachnowski
5/10/2021 10:49:52 am
Beautiful and soooo true.you hit the. Nail on the head in so many instances. I wish you courage, patience and love for what is yet to come for this has been just the beginning. Love Mom
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